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Hello there!
This ministry was actually
in response to a need that many Pastors have acknowledged, but so few have
actually addressed. Often the singles within our independent holiness
churches have felt as though they had no real place to fit in. They feel
like the odd man (or lady) out... a sort of square peg unable to fit in
the round hole reserved for them. As Pastors, we never intend for anyone
to have such feelings and believe that all have an important role to play
in the church. When our calendar has been filled for the year, it mostly
is comprised of Sunday School picnics, Youth Camps, Ladies Retreats, Men's
Advances, Couples Banquets and various Revivals and Conventions, etc.
While there is certainly room for the Single Adult in these activities,
there is really nothing formally planned to address the specific needs of
the man or woman who is no longer a teenager, and has never married. This
sense of not fitting in has driven some to seek fellowship or
companionship with peers they have met at school or on the job who may not
be Christians or hold
the same standards of holy living. We risk losing them to the larger,
worldly church that does give them this extra attention.
If
you have been skeptical wondering if this outreach was an attempt to
provide a forum for singles seeking singles, you have missed our goal
entirely. Our singles are a very important part of our church
congregation, and we want to give them the recognition needed. Nearly
every church has at least one single adult in their congregation, and it
is quite possible they have the feelings described earlier. They are more
than simply young people who never attained the "status" of marriage.
The fact is that the
Single Adult population is a growing community in our society today. Not
all are single because they have never had the opportunity to get
married. In the independent holiness church we applaud those who
have made the choice to not make a hasty choice they may live to regret.
These responsible adults in our congregations are of more importance than
the convenient babysitter during the annual Couples Banquet or the one we
always call to decorate the fellowship hall, because after all, they're
single and have all the time in the world... Right? Well, not always.
These people have a life also.
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This outreach is an effort
to recognize the worth of each one. It is an effort to provide a sense of
belonging and fulfillment within the singles community. We want the
singles in our independent holiness churches to reach their fullest
potential as the man or woman God desires them to be in their home
church. We want to support the Pastors of these churches by encouraging
these vital members to pursue being effective and productive members and
bringing glory to God in the process. In order for this to happen they
must turn their focus from self to the Savior. We have chosen the acronym
F.O.C.U.S. for that reason: Fulfilling Our Call to Uplift the
Savior. A single adult can never reach their greatest potential with
the victim syndrome of "poor me, I don't have a mate." They are of great
importance right now in their singleness, and God has them right there for
such a time as this.
F.O.C.U.S. on Singles is
all about encouraging singles to be about the Master's business, and let
God take care of the rest. We address this through the means of this web
site with articles and questions & answers as well as an Annual F.O.C.U.S.
Singles Conference where we meet for encouragement, instruction,
fellowship, and time with the Lord. We encourage the singles in
attendance to return and be productive in the greater ministry of their
home church.
Well that's it in a
nutshell. We trust you have become a little more familiar with WHO we are
and WHY we are doing what we are doing. If you still have questions why
not drop us a line or get in contact with us by email. If you are a
Christian
Single Adult who has never married or you have unfortunately lost your
spouse in death and would like to become more acquainted with this
ministry feel free to contact us as well. Visit the
Contact Us link to reach us if you desire any
more information, and THANKS for stopping by!
Please Note:
While we recognize the
need for ministry to those who have been divorced, in keeping with our
overall purpose, this ministry is directed to those we term biblically
single. These would include men and women who have never married or who
have been widowed and have no living spouse.
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